Denise Mills
I am an RN, and Certified Birth Doula, and offer both birth and postpartum Doula support. I also work as a nurse assistant to midwives in homebirth practice in this area. I am currently training to be an infant sleep consultant.
With 8 years of experience as a doula, I am pleased to support first-time and repeat birthing families, during vaginal and Cesarean births, VBAC, surrogate, and multiple births. I also have much experience supporting families through high-risk births and pregnancy loss.
I spent the first half of my working life as a park ranger, camp director, and environmental educator. Then I became a nurse and worked for many years in end-of-life care and as a hospice nurse, and also as a psychiatric nurse. Upon retirement, I came at last to my long-held passion of birth work, as the best “retirement career” ever possible! I waited a long time to make birth work a priority in my life, and the wait was definitely worthwhile.
I have given birth to two children of my own. One of those births was a hospital birth which ended in a cesarean delivery. The second was an unmedicated birth at home. They were both amazing and transformative experiences that definitely inform my support as a birth doula.
I believe that in the world of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting, just as in the world of nature, education and knowledge leads to greater understanding. And understanding leads to more trust, acceptance and appreciation of the process.
In addition to providing support on the physical, emotional, spiritual, and informational levels, an equal and essential aspect of my support involves being a part of your safety net, should it become necessary for you to step off the cliff of control and into the freefall of the unknown and unplanned. My goal for you both is to feel safe and strong and supported, no matter what becomes necessary during your pregnancy and birth. Ultimately, every birth can be a beautiful experience, even if it is not the one you envisioned originally. But having solid support and guidance as you step beyond your plan is essential. I will be strong with you and for you. I realize that I am being invited to share one of the most intimate experiences of your life together as a couple. I do not take that invitation lightly, but consider it an honor and a privilege.